She can go with the flow, as long as the two of you are together. All that matters is that she get to do these fun things with you. She has her own sense of style. Looking for perfectionism is not wrong, but when the girl tries to change the person who you are, she is probably a waste of time. She has a girly side, but not a bitchy side. Conflict with her will be resolved by talking, not immaturely ignoring you or starting petty drama. She would very well know her importance in your life and would be secure enough to give you space.