Most of you have been leaning toward the latter , but hey, stranger things have happened. Is she totally delusional? Shai lives with Joie across the country, and Bow Wow told Oprah earlier this year, "It's so hard -- I Skype with [Shai] and I just wish that I could just reach in there and grab her little self. That song is the one that really speaks, because it's about me getting someone out of my system to make me feel good, but it's hard to do that when you really like someone. So this album is not only for my fans, but for real rap heads.