Meanwhile I was interested to find that the gurus of Christian patriarchy don't like the courtship "I kissed dating goodbye" movement. But ChristianMingle has emptied the tune of its meaning to co-opt its familiar religious language and attract users. Several of my friends have met their significant others, and in some cases, have even married the partners they met. It is now deemed the fastest growing online community for this Christians. And then things take a religious turn. It is war, and the quicker our children understand this the better.