In the spoon position you can reach around and start touching her stomach, breasts and inner thighs. Usually when you think of spooning, you think cuddling. You then either get down on all fours and pleasure her orally from behind, or have her on all fours next to the edge of the bed so that you can either stand or kneel on the ground to make it easier on your back. Of course, spooning can also lead to forking sex … and adding a spoonful of sugar to your repertoire can be helpful in sweetening things up in the bedroom! Use your free hands to massage her breasts, and if you want to add an element of dominance despite your position on the bottom, you can place your fingers gently around her neck. You enter her in a similar way, which mimics the G-spot stimulation she gets from riding you and she can really arch her back, press into your body and create some movement and pressure. What's the spoon position?